There are few things which we should give up for a gleeful life. We all know below mentioned things, but we need to be reminded again and again that how truly powerful each and every one of us is.So here I am mentioning few things that I have analysed in my few years, which I am also trying to give up for a peaceful life. Here it goes
Give up on persistent expression of dissatisfaction
This is a little difficult one. I have seen so many people, who always criticize about each and everything whatsoever is going in there life whether it’s related to personal life, career etc, they always pretend they are the only ones who are going through the bad phase. So for them I can say nobody can make you joyful; no situation can make you sad, unless you allow it. It’s not the situation that makes you depressed, but how you choose to gaze at it. Give up on your continuous need of grumbling about people, situation and circumstances that make you sad, and start seeking happiness in every little thing in life.
Give up your resistance to convert
Now this is the most difficult one. I took a hell lot of time to over come from this issue, but the day I started accepting changes in my life, life becomes easy. I know smooth acceptance of change is tough but it’s the fact that change is always good. Change means chance and chance leads to self discovery and contemplation. Sometimes we become so immutable in life that we don’t want to see the other side of the problem; we don’t even try to make changes in ourselves by which that particular issue can be solved. At least start taking a step towards the conversion, may be you will not be able to come out of that particular mess but at least you will not be stuck somewhere in life because of your bullheadedness to not change. So guys embrace change with both the hands, in the end either that will be a lesson or solution.
Give up living your life to other people’s suppositions
Some people live their life according to what others think, sometimes pleasing friends, sometimes family, media and blah blah. And because of this whole pleasing process they forget about themselves that what do they want, and in the end they get disgruntlement only. And the bitter truth congruent to this is that practically you cannot win people; never ever, some people from the bunch will always criticize whatever you will do .So don’t let other people’s opinion divert you, listen to your own heart and be sanguine in whatever you are doing.
Give up your excuses
This is the easiest one amongst all .A lot of times we limit ourselves because of unnecessary excuses. Sometimes we give excuses of not following our hobbies, not going for a trip with friends by giving all blame to time or something else. Instead of growing and revamping ourselves, we get stuck to lying ourselves – excuses in which majority of them are not required and real. So guys surrender on your excuses, and accept who you are.
Any remark, observation? Please let me know with a comment below. I would love to hear from you. J
Cheers!!
Follow your heart and be happy!!
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